We made it. Our office successfully met once a week for six weeks. Admittedly our numbers dwindled towards the end, but the folks that were left were interested in keeping up meditation beyond just this six weeks, even incorporating it into their daily lives. A big commitment seeing as meditation takes time out of your precious productivity hours each day.
How did this work? How did we become convinced meditation had serious benefits?
Here’s what we learned:
Why meditate?
- To provide a "lubricant for life" in the words of our teacher, David
- To react to situations how you want to
As you start out with mediation, you need...
- "the patience and care of a father teaching a talented child woodworking
- the gentleness of a mother feeding her newborn baby
- the playful curiosity of a puppy entering the backyard for the first time"
For the first week you should focus on…
- Finding your seat
- Finding a time and space that works best for you
How do you focus on the breath?
- Bind your attention to the breath
What is binding?
- On the inhale, completely clear your thoughts
- On the exhale, relax
- Repeat for the first part of your practice until it feels more natural
What else to do for week 2?
- Start journaling about your experience each time you sit down - before, after, and during
- Reflect on what comes into mind each time you sit down – notice any patterns of thought
Introducing two different ways to think about opening:
- Anapanasati Sutra
- David’s comparison of opening to the world
An exercise to try out:
- Find an intimate object and a mundane object
- Consider the difference when looking at the two
- Feel the warmth you feel looking at the intimate object and apply that to how you feel in meditation
What else to practice:
- Try taking 3 deep breaths as various points throughout your day to practice meditating beyond your sit
What is labeling?
- Mentally processing your thoughts by simplifying them before they fully develop
- As a thought enters your mind, treat it as something you can suppress just like any other sensation you may try to ignore
- Label it, “thinking,” and then return to your practice
Why label?
- Helps to lessen your angry or fevered responses to daily occurrences
- Helps to keep your attention to your meditation
What do we mean by impermanence?
- The concept that things don’t last forever
- Taking concentrated time to reflect on the fact that everything changes
Why take time to do think about this?
- Helps to process the world
- Brings focus back to things that matter
How do you incorporate this into meditation?
- Follow the instruction of Ken McCloud
- Think about these facts of life until you feel a shift in your emotion
Week 6 – What now?
Our office has seen a difference. We like to believe taking meditation into the work day has helped us approach situations more calmly and thougthfully. Can this work for your office? Why not try it out?
- Resources – If you like to learn and dive deeper into these subjects, here are a few of David’s favs:
- Commit – find a time that works for you to practice daily and commit to it (even set reminders on your phone to hold yourself accountable)
- Be more mindful – bring your practice beyond your time sitting and allow it to change the way you react to situations at work and in life as a whole
- Notice – observe how it changes your day-to-day life